Dear Jheng

Dear Jheng,

Look at you now! You are much prettier than before. You look totally amazing.  Your curves define so much of your sex appeal. No wonder every guy would have a second look at you or should I say any man would fall in love with you.

You still are a delight to the eye. Still in shape and so fashionable. Your eyes still speak of your emotions.  Your smile is brighter than before.  You are as lovely as ever.

And even if you show a little sarcasm, you still possess that kindness in your heart.  You may seem to look "maldita" to others, but, they barely know that this lady is a total package. And if there is a word to best describe you, it would be beautiful.

So, how's life now? Been busy?

Yeah right! I heard you've been busy the past few months. But despite that I can see you're happy. I hope you are okay and life is treating you kind.  Your kids are your happiness. They've been achievers and that made you proud. That was one finest blessing.

Your family is your greatest possession. Oh, I can see how you love them. How proud you are of them.  And yes, how you are so much loved by them.  Your husband loves you so much. Be grateful for that. Not all husbands love their wife the way your husband does. He told me you are his everything and that he'll do anything for you. He maybe miles and miles away but you are never away from his mind and heart. I know you know that.  You are his queen, remember that.  You are his reason to live and everyday he falls in love with you.

Life is not perfect.

If problems occur, don't forget to visit the Blessed Sacrament. I also heard you've been feeling low the past days. He is just waiting for you.  If burdens are too much too carry, He is right there willing to listen.

I know you are strong. I've known you ever since. The silent girl like a water that runs deep with so much thoughts and wisdom in mind. I very well know too, that you rarely give up. You are a fighter. Many things came to your life and even up to this very moment you stand proud.

If somebody is trying to pull you down, always remember that nobody can put a good man down.
You may have had your share of mistakes and wrong doings, I believe you've asked God's mercy and compassion.

I know you are praying hard for something. Be patient. Good things will come to those who patiently wait. Trust in God's timing. Nothing is impossible. Do not waste too much time on something that cause stress to your life. In any angle, they don't deserve your time and you don't deserve them, anyway.

The world has so much for you. as you always say, Life is beautiful. You are beautiful.

There is something I want to tell you.

Once again, you are about to begin a new chapter in your life. I want you to make it more happier and meaningful than the previous years. Be more matured, wise and practical but always keep your feet flat on the ground. Be thankful and be grateful for you are given another year to celebrate life. Be the Jheng I've always known - - - happy, jolly, gay, bright, kind, simple and humble. The Jheng who manages to smile even in pain and the Jheng who is compose at all times.

Always remember these things:

1. Continue sharing your wisdom. Always have that positive attitude even when situation calls you to break down. In that manner you are improving yourself.

2. Continue loving even if you are hurting.  In that way you are loving unconditionally.

3. Continue giving even if they want take something away from you. In that way you become unselfish.

4. Continue forgiving even if they don't do the same. In that way you become humble and meek.

5.Continue living even if there are pain and suffering. In that way you become strong.

6. Continue hoping even if the world is unkind. In that way you never lose your conviction.

7. And lastly, continue praying even if God does not grant your request immediately. He is just testing your faith.

God loves you, always remember that.