Ched and I will be celebrating our 4th year anniversary as
husband and wife on the 10th of June. Time really flies fast. I never thought
we will reach this far. For me it is an achievement. There are some couples who
ended up crying, regretting and wishing to start their lives again after
marriage. But look at where we are now? Four years is not a joke. We've been
through a lot of things (good and bad) before we reach this stage.
Our marriage is not always sailing smoothly on the sea.
Sometimes we traveled the rocky road and attempted to look for shortcuts. We
fought over things that were often times non-sense, petty and sometimes had
heated arguments. We kiss and make up and managed to remain sweet and caring to
each other.
Our marriage is not just a moment of laughter and fun. There
were times that we wanted to give up. But after we thought of the things we
fought for, the happy moments we shared together and the things that happened
and came to us, we realized that those were just challenges in life. We struggle
hard, cried a lot and sacrificed so much and that we never want to give up
instead hold on to each other's arm as firm as we can.
There were some who judged us that we will never make it.
Others wanted to destroy us. But God has His own way and will. The most
beautiful thing that keeps us going is our angel, our son, Jennard!
Of course, having great faith to God also made us stood firm
and brave passing the test of time. I am hoping and praying that we will still
be together until our hairs turn gray and still sitting beside each other
holding hands just before the sun sets.
